Saturday, August 22, 2009

Frustrating Week

We've had a frustrating week since we arrived home from the New Forest. Leo was fine and on great form at the start of the week, but then come Wednesday and a night wheezing whilst trying to sleep, we had a visit to the GP. It's the first time PJ and I have felt confident to head to the GP surgery and primary care instead of straight to the oncology department at the hospital.

Funny how things happen though as we spoke with the GP Wednesday morning saying that for our own sanity we just wanted the doc to listen to Leo's chest given his wheezing. The doctor said that's what they're there for and given she'd spoken with plenty of people that morning who didn't need a doctor, she would of course see Leo later that day.

And then here's the funny thing; by the time his appointment came about, Leo had a temperature of 39.5 and really floppy; not very well at all. The doctor said he had an ear infection, gave us antibiotics which have played havoc which Leo's tummy and a few days on now, he's feeling stronger.

Not sure about his chest as we were sidelined by his sore ear. The nagging irrational fear is that the ear which he said hurt was on his right side and that this of course, is where his tumour was. The wheezy chest is another matter and could it be the cancer is back and this time in lungs???

Either way, we're back at the hospital for yet another MRI scan which will allay our fears and we can speak with his oncologist then. More sleepless nights until then as is the way every couple of months...

The other majorly frustrating thing is that we're now mentally in a place where we feel happy considering a trip to the USA and Disneyworld Florida for Leo. Together with the wonderful Christian Lewis Trust, one of the UK's children's cancer charities, we're able to go ahead and book flights with Virgin to Orlando for next May. Due to Virgin's partnership with the Christian Lewis Trust, we do not have to pay for our flights until a few weeks ahead of departure as this helps us reduce costs of cancellation insurance which is ludicrously expensive.

Thanks to the Give Kids the World organisation in Florida, we can stay with them for a week and then the Christian Lewis Trust have negotiated preferential rates for families with children with life-threatening illnesses for a hotel in Clearwater for a further week.

So none of that is frustrating at all - the key thing which is very frustrating is that travel insurance for Leo is either extortionate or not available to the USA. The process of trying to get travel insurance quotes is ever so frustrating and frequently reminds you how risky this whole business is. Due to the fact Leo has chest x-rays every 2 months and head MRI scans every 3 months, this shows underwriters that Leo's cancer is high risk. We could consider going without travel insurance or even take a policy which excludes the cancer side of things; but it would only take a very simple and common eye infection in Leo's right eye and a swift trip to the ER whilst in Florida, and that could end up costing more than the policy in the first place.

So after trying eight different specialist cancer travel insurance brokers, we have only been given one quote and it's subject to underwriters agreement come April next year and the quote came to £3734 in total!! The other seven said his cancer was un-insurable (not sure that's even a word)!

What is an even bigger reminder of the risks Leo faces with a relapse is that if it does return, we'll certainly not be able to go to the USA as no-one would consider him an easy risk then! So if we really want to do Disneyworld, we really need to just do it. If we could do it at New Year or sooner then we would but flights have certainly increased with all the taxes these days so it's more realistic we can afford to go in May!

Agreeing that we're happy to go away to the USA now is one thing, but we need Leo's doctors to agree he can go which may be another thing altogether. And although he may be fine to go now, it would have to be a decision taken in April or beginning of May so let's pray that everything remains clear for all the obvious reasons but because Leo is always going to be in and out of hospital, whether the cancer returns or not, we would love to give Leo two weeks of fantastic Disney fantasy and take him, in a little bubble and yes, wrapped up in cotton wool, and away from these all-too-regular hospital visits!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Funny what happens in one year...

Just returned from a most welcome and fantastic holiday to the New Forest, and all thanks to the Lennox Children's Cancer Fund. They're an awesome UK based charity who help children and their families have a holiday in the UK, especially when it's tricky and expensive for international travel insurance for overseas trips.

Leo had a fab time having won the Best Dancer competition on the very first night of our holiday and then we went on to enjoy a thrilling speedboat ride in Bournemouth, a donkey ride at an amusement park, watched Scooby-Doo on the stage, went to the Isle of Wight for the day, admired awesome houses in Sandbanks in Poole and plenty more.

Ironically our holiday coincided with the week Leo started radiotherapy under a general anaesthetic this time last year so whilst we were on holiday, it was lovely to rnjoy how far Leo has come in 365 days. Certainly on this day last year, I can say with confidence, that we were still looking at another 25 general anaesthetics over another 5 weeks with chemo for good measure, and there was plenty of trepidation. And Leo may have been a smiley chap back then but he's a changed boy now.

A year on, he's a happy boy who thoroughly enjoyed entertaining the crowds at the holiday park with his dancing. And if you remember the Take That rendition Leo did about 6 months ago, wait until you see his S Club 7 grooves and moves! Uploaded here ASAP!