No Decision is Still a Decision..Isn't It?

As you'll see from the title of this post, no decision has been taken over the whole maintenance chemo side of things..but that's still a decision, isn't it? If you'd asked me yesterday, I'd have said, yeap, let's go for it. However, today, I'm all for not pursuing further treatment. Leo's been through enough and if doctors cannot say for sure that another 24 weeks of treatment will help, then why would we, or even , why should we put Leo through this?

PJ feels the same and his mind changes from day to day too, but then one prevailing thought is that if there's more treatment available, even if you've no proof it will work, then why wouldn't you choose the extra treatment? Extra treatment equals extra coverage surely? Wouldn't we all like to know that everything's been done which could be done... One good thing is we can start the treatment and if there are problems, such as Leo not wanting to take the daily chemo tablet or if he gets a risky infection too frequently, then we can stop.

Leo's on good form at the moment and being a totally 'normal' three year old. Throwing a fit in the middle of Harvey Nichols because he was tired, bored and stuck in his buggy..just your plain old normal toddler behaviour! But then take him to a toy store to spend some cash given to him by the cancer charity Macmillan, specifically for toys, and what does he choose? The most expensive thing in the place? Nope! A £1 plastic, stretchy lizard, of which he already has three!

He's probably neutropenic this week and as he still has his heavy cough / cold, all eyes are on this wandering temperature which keeps going up to about 37.8 each afternoon / evening since last Saturday, but then it returns to normal, of its own accord. It'll be interesting to see what happens once his immune system is next to zero.

We've another eye appointment to check Leo's sight on October 29th however, neither PJ nor I are hoping for much improvement. Unfortunately Leo was drawing pictures of himself this evening whilst we were over with Ainslie, Ben and Matilda, and the pictures all featured one eye completely coloured in black and one 'good' eye. Upon asking him about this, he said the black one was his bad eye and the other was his good one. Shame.. but hey, a Leo alive and healthy at the age of 40 but blind in one eye, or the alternative...which one would we choose?