Thursday, November 13, 2008

Independent or what?

A huge week this week - Leo started school at a lovely Montessori school here in Bristol. Having been a bit nervous about whether he'd cling to our legs and not want to be left without us...well, he's just done so very well!

He practically told us to leave him there, and yet the expectation had been that Leo and I would stay for about an hour each day this week and then increase it next week, with me perhaps leaving him for increasing amounts of time over the next few weeks. In fact, it's gone so well, he's been happy to be left to be a 'normal' child for a few hours each afternoon. Wonderful. Jujst fabulous. Perhaps we'll increase his afternoons there from three to four quite soon!

We always knew he had that independent streak in him before he had cancer and now it's as evident as ever, which is very welcome. He's had so much heartache over the past 7 months that if he'd become distressed or upset at being left at school on his own, we'd immediately question whether it was right for him at this time; clearly it is!

An old friend (not in age), has visited us this week also. The lovely Ian Howat has been to say hi and we wished he lived around the corner! Both PJ and I worked with Ian years ago before we got married and had Leo, and he remains a supportive friend. To say Leo did not want Ian to leave is an understatement. Ian was amazing with Leo; there was lots of playing up and showing off, and that was just Ian!

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